Bros before hoes March 23, 2009

I hear this term used by people nearly everday never paid much attention to it until recently or actually 4 days ago it was my brother’s birthday party so we wnet to celebrate how we know best, at a club and we drank till dawn. At the party we had all close friends which included a girl who had recently broken-up with her boyfriend. Lets call her karyl now her boyfriend – lets call him richard oh and Richard . Karyl was invited so turned up drank with us, took pictures, danced like crazy bottom line she had fun. Richard didnt bother to turnu p even after we all called him like a million times, anyway so couple of days later he sees the pictures of the party on facebook and spins out of control accussing us all of being perverts and claming that we ‘probably slept with her’. I know what a jerk I know richard for a long time and i know he ahd karyl have had problems in the past but now they are broken up so what she does who she dances with who she goes home with should be none of his concerns honestly he is not with her so he shouldn’t get upset but he did.

He texted me all these rubbish messages and even called me asking me – “where did you take her after the party? did you drop her home? was she drunk?” Frankly i could have said pissoff and hung up but I know how it feels to have your heart broken. I went through it exactly a year ago so i feel for the guy but in this case it was mutual, apprently not!.

Later karyl called and explained that she doesn’t understand why Richards upset why is dick being a dick, yeah i know stupid joke, so I told her I’m not angry or upset and I wasn’t I was sad that my friend doesn’t trust me at all. I mean this is a guy when he was piss drunk and pucking i took care of him. When he had no car to go by alcohol I drove him in the middle of the night to a bar. God when he was screwing another chick while still with karyl I made excuses for him and he asks me ‘did you take her anywhere after party?’. And I’m not the only one he accussed my brother and all the other people who were there (there were like 30-40 people) and how would these many people manage to have sex with her in one night is out of my understanding. Well obviously some words were exchanged a few threats might have been made too but nothing major has happened though. Still the fact is that Richard should either own up and admit hes not over her or let it go if he doen’t want to be with her. He can’t get upset everytime she does something like this she has every right to do whatever she wants and date whoever she wants they have broken up so whats the problem?